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      Hello!   03/17/16

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  2. Dissociation

    Yes, I can get this with a shutdown or on its own.  Ive struggled with it for along time, sometimes I get if frequently can last days/week then go away for a few weeks and come back, or I can go a few months sometimes without having one,  But it is the symptom that I hate the most.
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  4. Borderline Personality Disorder

    Thanks for the video my immediate take away is autism affects how we think and understand, which goes hand in hand with our actions. Borderline Personality Disorder affects how people act on a more visceral level, maybe with stronger emotions or more sudden emotions. Autism is different but a constant. Borderline Personality Order may be more chaotic. Just a quick thought, I'll read more about it when I can.
  5. Borderline Personality Disorder

    Just saw 3-4 videos on BPD and I still don't understand it. A lot of the symptoms seem to be similar to ASD as well, but I really liked this video.    
  6. Borderline Personality Disorder

    @Harrow I don't know if it's autistic behavior for sure, just sounds like it. I don't know either, was just giving my opinion. I think I need to look into BPD more to see more of the differences between it and ASD.  I wasn't saying that what you were saying was wrong (in case you thought I did).  
  7. Borderline Personality Disorder

    Oh. To be honest I know that's the autistic behavior. The suddenness of how he changes though and the intensity I thought by what others have said made it sound very like Borderline Personality disorder as described, but I'm not really sure, thanks @AugustGrace 
  8. Hey, ive been looking for something to help me cope better from all the fluorescent lights at work and I came across Blue Shield lenses.  These are supposed to help against blue light, but it wont help with the light sensitivity issue I have.  But I do like how these will be clear like regular lenses, Im not open about my diagnosis.  Please take a moment and give an opinion on what you think. https://hakimoptical.ca/blue-shield-lenses-can-benefit/   thanks,
  9. Borderline Personality Disorder

    But @Harrow this sounds like autistic behavior as well, hitting himself in the head sounds like a meltdown from things not going the way he's used to. Aspies can find it extremely hard to deal with change. I once threw my sauce because I got ranch when I asked for barbecue. It was a mini meltdown and little things like that can set me off too. 
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  11. Borderline Personality Disorder

    My dad is like that. He flips in seconds. I didn't know we kept the oil after cooking (I've never lived with my dad only visit) so I threw it out and he's girlfriend just came and politely asked me to keep it the next time and he started hitting himself in the head and screaming on the top of his voice he then slept in the garden that night and refused to come back into the house and he does things like that really often.  I don't know if that is Borderline Personality Order but sounds like it from the descriptions above P.s @PandaPrincess sorry I've quoted you I'm on my phone and I can't work out how to unquote you 
  12. Borderline Personality Disorder

    He wasn't like that at first, and back then, I still had extremely low self-esteem, and I didn't think that I deserved better.  I think I was also afraid to be alone, and I wanted the companionship, even though he was emotionally abusive towards me.  
  13. Borderline Personality Disorder

    Why did you go out with him in the first place if he was like this?  I wonder if he has a girlfriend now considering how he is. 
  14. Borderline Personality Disorder

    I think that maybe my ex has this.  He would often completely flip out over little things, and there were a couple of times where he threatened to commit suicide after he had an argument with his dad.  He was pretty unstable at times.  
  15. Fluoxetine and Trazodone

    I don't take either one of them medications 
  16. I don't see a problem with that. I pirate games sometimes so I can test them out. If I like the game I'll purchase it on Steam. I'm not going to purchase a $60 game and find out  I don't like it. Steam has a nice return policy, but not every video game business has a good return policy. If pirating isn't harming anyone then I don't see it as a big deal.
  17. Fluoxetine and Trazodone

    Sorry to hear that Jo. that must be hard for you. I was prescribed Sertraline and I absolutely hated the experience. It made me feel so worried about my physical health that I had no energy to care for my mental or emotional well-being.   
  18. Well while it isn't legal it is highly unlikely to result in any kind of action against him. Is this the same guy who is racist and homophobic? You could always report him to the police (for the hate stuff I mean, I doubt they care about the porn/downloads). As long as he isn't using your computer I don't really see why you have an issue with this... just ignore him, let him live his life as he pleases and mind your own business.
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  20. I take Fluoxetine and Trazodone. Is there anyone else in this group that takes these medications? And how do they make you feel? They make me feel very tired.
  21. Facebook groups

    Any in the US?
  22. Facebook groups

    Personally I would be very wary of FB.. I am not on it but have read the T&C and seen straight through them.. I know exactly what MZ is up to - he has more power than any other person on the globe and it is hidden.. He is Far more dangerous for the human race than D Trump is believe me. 
  23. Facebook groups

    I would add that in just checking up - though what I follow is private to the public, the family member  I used as 'view as' example can see some of what I 'follow'. ie: some pages following. Not sure why this is. Groups that I have formally joined are not shown. 
  24. Facebook groups

    @Going home Thanks  
  25. Facebook groups

    You can certainly make your groups private from the public -  in settings ... I know your posts in those groups can be private from friends though as mine are. I'm not sure if you can make your groups membership private from friends or not. EDIT: Just checked ('view as') and my groups seem invisible to named family members I would spend time looking in the settings and try some google searches. You can also periodically use the 'view as' facility on timeline settings - to see what public, friends or specific individuals can see
  26. Facebook groups

    Yep - defo... Unless you change your privacy settings.
  27. Facebook groups

    If you join this group, can other people (facebook friends) see that you have joined?
  28. Does this girl like me?

    I think where you are concerned it's probably best to assume she does not like you. In fact working on that assumption is probably more likely to result in the outcome you want. Just treat her like she is a dude, talk to her normally and let her get to know the real you instead of the person you are pretending to be to impress her, tell her about your interests but also make a point of asking her about hers and listening to the answers, if she likes the real you then you won't need to ask us cause it will become obvious even to you. However, under no circumstances should you start talking to her on social media etc, categorically do not stalk her online! You will freak her out and she will avoid you (which will only make your reputation worse).
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