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Hi, my names Tamzin and I'm 14 years old. I was wondering if any of you could give me some advice as I'm struggling at the moment. I get very upset and frustrated a lot. I'm easily wound up and it really annoys me. I try to keep it in but when it comes out I just break down and don't recover for days. I cry all night and quite a lot in the day, preventing me from having fun. I just want to be a regular teenager, going to parties etc, but the socialness (don't think that's a word) of a party freaks me out. Even though I'm a loud, outgoing person, I feel swallowed up in a crowd, and I never know where to place myself. I'm quite a sociable person, I will chat to people and I don't feel particularly uncomfortable, its just crowds and trying to concentrate when there is so much going on around you, you can't get your head straight and you can't really deal with it in the correct way. So what do I do? How do I place my self in society as whole really? I'm the odd one out, I'm an outsider who just wants to fit nicely. Please give me some suggestions, and if you have any questions I'm happy to try and answer them, as I like returning advice too. By the way, I only found out about 7 months ago I have aspergers, so I haven't really had time to come round to the idea. If that makes sense.